I spent my day doing thing emotionless and sometime get a … After a breakup, I like most people, feel like a shell of a woman, with no hope for a better future. 5. (Which means you won't be crying into that carton of cookie dough ice cream forever.) Still struggling 5 months after breakup (40 Posts) Add comment | Report. In your good days you will want to be friends with your exes and will fondly think of them and the time you’ll spend together and in all likelihood wish them the best. richdeniro Sun 23-Dec-18 23:27:27. Hello there and sorry for the long post, I am hoping that by writing all this down it will be a bit cathartic and you guys might be able to give me a bit of a support. 5 Months After Breakup. I feel like there's no love in this world anymore, like i dont want to love or be love by anyone anymore. A contrasting study by Fifties.com, a dating site, found it takes divorcees much longer to get over a breakup.The study found it takes 18 months, or 17 months and 26 days is usually the point when an ex-spouse feels ready to move on after signing the divorce papers. Ever since the break up, i feel empty, numbness, emotionless, even after 2 years already. Learn from it Part of learning how to move on after a break-up is learning from your experience. This includes the break-up itself as well as your entire relationship with him. We were dating for just over 4 years. Leaning on friends is an instrumental part of the healing process for most people after a painful breakup. Healing after a breakup isn't easy—if it were, millions of songs, paintings and poems wouldn’t even exist.But while the pain of cutting ties with a loved one is universal, fortunately, it’s not eternal. 8 weeks since he blocked me for the 2nd time after our break-up in Aug. First time he blocked me for 1.5 months before making a brief come-back of 4 days, displaying all these signs. Meanwhile, my ex-boyfriend had a new girlfriend within six weeks and another one right after her. After a breakup, you might find yourself with more free time than you’re used to. Exes can be friends. Really strange… He is 54, and me 51, attractive, fit and trim, and looking 10 years younger. Seeing that she got in a new relationship less that 2 weeks after she broke up with me crushed me. Delusion: You will probably go through some good days and bad days after your breakup. I would like to tell myself that things have been good but they haven’t. And will things ever get better? My last big breakup was almost three years ago. Try to use this time in positive ways. I can only give you my own experience as an answer really since i haven't figured it out myself. But exactly how long does it take to get over someone? Today marks exactly 5 months after my ex(24F) broke up with me(24M). 5. It was horrible (we never spoke again), and I grieved in a big way.I vented to my friends constantly, I wrote—and I cried, like, a lot. This is a question i've been asking myself aswell. (Yes, I kept tabs on his social media for much longer than I should have.)